Friday, July 31, 2009

Saturday 9 : Rain

1. What do you typically like to do on a rainy day?

Stay in bed, snuggle, sex, computer, eat, snuggle, cuddle ;)

2. Tell us about the last time you did something you later regretted, that you can share with us.

I think you should NEVER regret the things you have done because at one time it was EXACTLY what you wanted. (If at one time it made you smile it was worth it) So i regret the things i haven't done because then i will NEVER know how it turned out!

3. I recently got an email from a lover from a

very long time ago. I was asked "Have all your dreams come true?"
LOL! and you care because?

4. If you had a job interview and was asked, "If you were an animal, what kind would you be (other than human?)" How would you answer that question.

I would want to be either a worm or a cheetah. Cause worms have 8 hearts, so it would be really hard for me to die (unless a fish ate me) and a cheetah because it would be so amazing to run so fast.

5. Do you think it is a good idea to share with a new lover stories of your past lovers?

Hell No!

6. When do you think it is permissible or even important to lie?

When your ass is at gunpoint.

7. What was the last thing you did that you never thought you would?

Fly to the heavens in his arms.

8. What is one important lesson that you learned from your mother?

My mother taught me about the science of OSMOSIS.
"Shut your mouth and eat your supper."

9. What is one important lesson that you learned from your father?

My father taught me about ENVY.
"There are millions of less fortunate children in this world who don't have wonderful parents like you do."

Friday, June 26, 2009

Be mine

One song can spark a moment,
one flower can wake a dream,
one tree can start a forest,
one bird can herald a spring,
one smile can bring a friendship,
one handclasp can lift a soul,
one star can guide a ship at sea,
one word can frame a goal,
one vote can change the nation,
one sunbeam can light a room,
one candle can wipe out darkness,
one laugh can conquer gloom,
one step can start a journey,
one word can start each prayer,
one hope can show you care,
one voice can speak with wisdom,
one heart can know whats true,
one life can make a difference,
you see,
It's up to you.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Mood Swings

I swear I hate being a girl sometimes. I don't know if its my craziness, my hormones or chemical imbalances in my brain, but I have been having serious bouts of mood swings! I'll be crying one time and then getting angry the next. It bothers me so much early in the morning when it strikes the worst.

Poor Him. He has been sooo patient. any idea on how to overcome hormonal mood swings?

Friday, June 5, 2009

My Dear Body

Dear Body,

It is really difficult to write to you. I feel ashamed to call you dear because I am so embarrassed for the way I have been to you. I used to hate you. I used to think you were the cause of all my pain. I gave you a hard time back in high school, didn't I? All I could do was call you names. I called you jiggly-thighs or cottage cheese ass. All I could do was think about what other people thought of you, when in reality, the relationship was always between you and me, not anybody else. I never congratulated or admired you for the accomplishments you have done. So here I am doing it now. It is better late than never, right?

Body... You are AMAZING. You can do SO much. I'm sorry that for so many years, I only looked at your imperfections. It's a shame that I never came to this realization in high school. Society made me look at your beautiful curves as chubby and fat. But I don't believe that anymore. You deserve to be treated with love and respect. Never again will I deprive you of much needed vitamins and minerals, drive you to complete exhaustion, or deny you of your well-deserved rest by pulling all-nighters for exams. I will treat you as my temple. I will nourish you and keep you healthy and active.

You and I, my dear, still have a whole life ahead of us. Let's be friends :)

With you forever,

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

love all the way

From the very Beginning, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him. Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often.

Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: "How deep is your love for me?" As the guy is not good with his words, this often cause the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure,the girl often vent her anger on him.

As for him, he only endure it in silence. After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life.

As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?" The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got engaged. The girl went out to the working society,whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.

One day, while the girl was on her way to work,she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mom crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice...... The doctors says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort,but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.

During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry,'s still just silence cry that accompanied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same.Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer. With that, she sent the ring back to him.

In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, is still crying.... The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy. With a new environment, the girl learn sign language & started a new life.Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him.

A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope,containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl was shattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her. He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled...

Saturday, April 25, 2009

3 words only

Three little words can make a difference in one's life. There are many things that we can do to perk up and strengthen our interpersonal relationships. Yet the most effective involves the saying of just three words.

When spoken or conveyed, these statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.

I'll Be There:
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.

I Miss You:
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed,desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your workday, just to say "I miss you."

I Respect You:
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends. This applies to all inter-personal relationships.

Maybe You're Right:
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe you're right" is the humility of admitting, "Maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it.When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.

Please Forgive Me:
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, follies and failures.A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong,which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.

I Thank You:
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand,people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.

Count On Me:
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating you can "count on me."

Let Me Help:
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it.When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.

I Understand You:
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. This applies to any relationship.

I Love You:
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs; the need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your family, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words. "I love you."

Go To Hell is also a three word only. Use it to your benefit.

Saturday, April 18, 2009


My favorite Language ... in AMERICAN SIGN LANGUAGE: I Love You
Prompt by Sunday Scribblings

Saturday, March 28, 2009

The Painted Veil

Tagline: Sometimes the greatest journey is the distance between two people

Based on W. Somerset Maugham's novel, The Painted Veil has to be one of the most dramatic love stories of the year - slotting it at the very same high-caliber level (in terms of cinematography, acting and storyline) of films such as Out of Africa (released in 1985 and one of the sensational Meryl Streep's older works with co-star Robert Redford), The English Patient (1996) and the more recent Memoirs of a Geisha (2005).

In The Painted Veil, Edward Norton plays Walter Fane, a reserved, gentle and sweet-tempered bacteriologist who falls placidly in love with a high-strung and rather precocious piano-playing beauty by the name of Kitty (Naomi Watts). By catching Kitty off-guard at a flower shop in town, Fane proposes in utmost (well-bred) politeness and warm sincerity. Dreading spinsterhood (constantly re-enforced by a taunting mother), Kitty readily agrees and the couple move to China where Fane practices his profession in Shanghai with fervour and skill. What tragically follows is squalid, ugly adultery, the aching pain of betrayal and the quiet determination of spirit - eventually leading to compassionate and a more 'refined' form of love. This two hour film is one that weaves its way around the discovery of self without an overwhelming dosage of melodrama. Nor is The Painted Veil an underwhelming tear-jerker (be sure to keep a box of tissues and a loved one within arms-reach).

Edward Norton's character representation in the movie has been carried out so brilliantly that his ratings as an actor are sure to place him in the category of A-grade Hollywood actors. With this film it is evident how dexterous Norton can be as an actor - he seems to fit into each of his roles without much effort at all. After films such as Fight Club, The Italian Job and Red Dragon, his portrayal of Fane in The Painted Veil, if carried out by any other actor, would have paled in comparison. It is almost as if the role was tailor-made for Norton.

In terms of its cinematography, the film has been shot superbly as it drifts from the present to the past and then back again. Besides, Watts and Norton's on-screen chemistry is pretty darn 'go-get-a-room' explosive. The anxiety in the air between the couple is tense and ripe, heavy too with shades of unrequited/tainted love. And as the movie progresses, you cannot help but to be absorbed and riveted by the lives of these two estranged lovers, amidst the backdrop of nationalist China and a life-threatening disease (cholera).

There is tremendous personality growth, self-analysis and lessons in humility that the main characters (especially Kitty) face in the length of the movie and if you're a woman, you'll find yourself questioning what a 'good' husband and a solid marriage ought to be 'made' of. Bad boys in fear of commitment come with a heavy price-tag and Kitty realizes just this when she has the door of soiled ardor slammed in her pale, pretty face.

Recognizing her ever-doting and tender Fane, Kitty begins to fall in love with the man who had once proposed to her months before in a flower shop.
But is it too late?

I give it ****.5/*****

Sunday, March 15, 2009

25 Facts About Me

1. I’m procrastinating most of the time.

2. My favorite film is the Shawshank Redemption, closely followed by Predator.

3. When i was younger I used to think every guy I saw wanted to rape me or every van i saw wanted to take me. I was paranoid.

4. I'm really really shy if I don't know you. Apparently I barely spoke when i was in kindergarten.

5. My music taste is pretty eclectic – it ranges from pop to metal to hip-hop to trance to classical and all the way back again.

6. My favorite store is Barnes and Noble..

7. I’ve been held at knife point.

8. Sometimes I think I was born in the wrong time period..

9. I haven't ridden a bike since I was a student. I fell off one day, hurt my knee, and haven't had the courage or inclination to try again..

10. I hate beetroot.

11. The only sport I have been any good at is swimming.

12. I love cats.

13. My skin reacts badly to the sun, so I have to sit in the shade.

14. I dislike attention a lot. I wish I could be invisible.

15. I almost died when I was younger because something was wrong with my blood.

16. When I was in year seven it took me months to live down getting 100% in the end of year maths exam.

17. I can tell you the capital of pretty much every country in the world.

18. I love sport; football, tennis and rugby in particular, but I’ll get into pretty much anything except darts and golf.

19. My favorite painting is MonaLisa.

20. I keep meaning to learn to juggle.

21. I can play the harmonica.

22. I believe that whatever happens to you in life will only make you stronger and end up knowing the kind of person you really want to be.

23. I just don't give a shit really, i dress like a bum everyday..

24. I had bad self-image problems..

25. I’ve stopped procrastinating.

Hear me Out

You can't love anyone that way
more than once in a lifetime.
It's too hard and it hurts
too much when it ends.
The first boy is always
the hardest to get over.
It's just the way the world works.

Fuck Fuck

Live dangerously and you live right!


To all the bastards who once were in a woman's life, a good woman's life,
"think of me as you undo her dress. I hope you here my voice as you kiss her neck.
& as lust is screaming for release, I hope to god you’re remembering me."

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Deal with me ;)

I would like to elaborate but this is my week to be blunt.

So deal with it!

Friday, February 13, 2009

Many a woman borrows a man's heart; very few could possess it.

... and those who could possess it ruined it while in their possession.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Love is like Chocolate

Love is like Choclate,
it comes in diffrent variety's.
You have your white, milk, and your dark etc.
We want more and more of both.
Both makes us happy,
both everyone can't get enough of.
But too much of anything isn't good for you.
Love can break your heart, and make you do crazy things as well,
and choclate makes you gain weight, and really leaves you miserable, if you eat too much.
We can have our choclate,
but we also can't eat it.
Life dosen't work that way.
Sometimes we may want dark,
but we get milk or white instead.
Love is like choclate,
it makes you happy,
makes you feel good,
its sweet,
and should be valued by people who want to do it right.
But don't let if fool you either.
Love and choclate can spoil any time.
Then its time to move on to another brand, another kind.
Maybe it wasn't real choclate or real love to begin with at all period.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Pissing Off

What types of people drive me crazy?

1. Liars

2. Loud-mouthed people who don't know when to hush up

3. People who don't have a sense of humor

4. People who don't like you—and don't even know who you are

5. People who think they are better than everyone else

6. People who don't know how to share

7. People who have no respect for others

8. People who are serious all the time

9. People who try to be something they're not

10. People who don't know how to be a good teammate

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

With Love To You

With love to you... wherever you are.
My heart doth send to thee.
Rivers wide and mountains tall
Separate you from me.

Looking at pictures of you and I
Seems to bring you close.
But hearing our song being played
Brings you near the most.

I remember us dancing to that tune,
Under the shade of a tree.
That day in the park together,
Our spirits running wild and free.

Whenever I feel gloomy,
I think of you and can't help but smile.
Though it doesn't last forever,
At least it lasts for a while.
author: unknown

Friday, January 2, 2009

Feng Shui Good Bed, Feng Shui Bad Bed

From "Time to go to bed!" to "Shall we go to bed?" to "He is on his deathbed.." - the bed is the most used, famous and important feng shui piece of furniture in one's life.

Needless to say, feng shui-wise, a good bed is one of the most important feng shui purchases you will make for your own well-being.

What makes a great feng shui bed? Three things:

Good headboard. While you are drifting off to sleep, your body is going intro an extra busy energy repair work on many levels. Subconsciously your head needs good backing, protection and support, just like your back needs it when you are seating in a chair for extended periods of time. Best feng shui headboards are the ones that are solid and made from wood, or the upholstered ones, as they have a very good combination of solid, but also gentle and supporting feng shui energy for you and your bedroom.

Good mattress. There is a variety of mattresses on the market, choose wisely and invest in the one that will promote best sleep and relaxation. The better you sleep at night, the better your health, this is really simple.

Good height to allow for a balanced feng shui energy flow under the bed. Generally, the beds that have built-in storage drawers underneath to help you with storage solutions are considered bad feng shui beds. The energy needs to circulate around your body when you sleep, which is not possible if the space underneath the bed is blocked.

I recently bought my dream bed - an upholstered bed with a beautiful headboard and just the right height. It gives me great pleasure to look at it, sleep in it, and, needless to say, I absolutely and totally love it!

What's your bed like - is it a good feng shui bed or a bad feng shui bed?

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Your Love, Your Cup of Hot Chocolate

n.b. not my poem. read it a long time ago. but to date i love it.

Give me thy love,
thy cup of hot chocolate.

For when I drink of you,
my soul is overtaken with your warmth.

When the world outside is cold,
I sip of you and the cold is turned back,
allowing your warmth to enter my body.

Sometimes the hot chocolate burns,
too hot to hold and too scorching to drink.

When I let you cool you become safe to swallow,
so I sip again of your warmth and it fills me inside.

I never let a day go by without my hot chocolate.